Child development: Strategies for teaching manners and confidence

Experts and parenting guides emphasize the importance of teaching children social manners and self-confidence through modeling and specific communication tools.

To instill good manners, parents are encouraged to act as role models by using polite language such as ‘please’ and ‘thank you’ in daily interactions. Teaching basic etiquette, such as sitting calmly during meals and using greetings like ‘hello’ or ‘goodbye,’ helps children develop social foundations. Positive reinforcement and praise are recommended when children successfully navigate these social expectations.

Building self-confidence is equally critical. Child psychiatrist Dr. Sid Khurana suggests teaching children phrases like ‘I don’t understand’ or ‘Can you explain this part?’ to help them seek clarity and set boundaries. Additionally, Jennifer Walker of Moms on Call notes that treating children as capable individuals helps them develop a sense of agency. Encouraging phrases such as ‘I can solve this’ helps foster a positive internal dialogue and resilience.