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School refusal in children: Causes and parental support strategies
Experts are highlighting the psychological complexities behind school refusal in children, noting that persistent avoidance is often a symptom of underlying issues rather than mere disobedience or laziness.
Potential causes for school refusal include bullying, social difficulties, learning disabilities, and various mental health conditions such as ADHD, anxiety disorders, or depression. Physical symptoms like stomach aches, nausea, and headaches are frequently linked to stress and tension rather than physical illness. In some cases, family stressors such as divorce or bereavement can also cause children to seek refuge at home.
To support a smooth transition back to school, specialists recommend that parents recognize and validate their children's emotions. Strategies include using creative tools like 'emotion maps' or drawing to help children externalize their fears and excitement, allowing parents to better understand how to provide support.