German ethicist warns AI chatbots could deepen loneliness as users reject AI in dating

Social ethicist Elmar Nass warned that AI‑based chatbots may increase loneliness by replacing human conversation, especially for vulnerable individuals. He cited cases where users developed suicidal thoughts after relying on chatbots and urged stricter regulation, public debate and education, stating, "Wir brauchen mehrere Dinge gleichzeitig: Regulierung, gesellschaftliche Debatten und vor allem Bildung." New data from Germany's Federal Institute for Population Research shows about one‑fifth of young adults feel very lonely.

A parallel study by Match Group found that 47 % of U.S. singles view AI in romantic contexts negatively, while a Bitkom survey in Germany revealed even stronger scepticism – 77 % of women and 69 % of men consider AI in relationships problematic. Respondents are open to AI assistance for profile writing or conversation starters but reject AI as a substitute for genuine connection. The findings highlight growing public concern over AI's role in personal relationships and reinforce Nass’s call for clear guidelines.

Nass emphasized the need for rules that prevent AI from replacing human interaction, especially in mental‑health scenarios, urging lawmakers to define boundaries where digital systems may engage with users.