Family Caregiving Disputes Over Senior Care and Conservatorship

Families frequently clash over decisions for aging relatives, whether choosing an assisted‑living facility, limiting a parent’s driving, or appointing a conservator to manage personal and financial affairs. A Place for Mom’s 2025 Senior Care Survey found that 28 % of caregivers report disagreements about the best care options, and 33 % say discussions about alternatives are among the toughest aspects of caregiving.

Experts note that disputes often stem from differing perceptions of safety, financial concerns, and the desire to retain independence. Mediators such as Katharina W. Dress recommend clear communication, focusing on understanding each other's perspectives, and, when needed, professional mediation to reach common ground and protect the elder’s interests.