Frankie Grande says he faces femmefobia from gay men for embracing femininity

Performer Frankie Grande said he has encountered hostility from gay men because he embraces a feminine presentation, describing the prejudice as “femmefobia.” While discussing his upcoming memoirs, Grande explained that the hate he experiences stems from both misogyny and homophobia within the LGBTQ community.

He said he often chooses to present himself in traditionally feminine ways—wearing makeup, high heels, and form‑fitting clothing—not as a drag queen but because he loves those styles. Grande cited pop icons Britney Spears and Madonna as early influences and emphasized that his choice challenges conventional gender norms.

Grande’s comments highlight ongoing debates about gender expression and acceptance within queer spaces.