German Reddit community debates polyamorous relationship strain and toxic friendships

Two German Reddit posts sparked discussion about challenging personal relationships. The first author describes feeling sidelined in a romantic partnership that also involves a third woman named Clara, noting conflicts over time together and financial expectations. Community members advise setting clear boundaries about friends the partner may keep.

The second post recounts a once‑close friendship that turned harmful, detailing emotional manipulation, neglect during illness, and a gradual erosion of trust. Respondents label the dynamic as a “toxic friendship” and suggest recognizing warning signs and distancing oneself for personal well‑being.