Healthy relationship indicators: The rise of ‘green flags’

There is a growing cultural shift toward identifying ‘green flags’—positive indicators of healthy relationships—as an alternative to the widespread focus on ‘red flags’ like gaslighting and ghosting.

A campaign by Tinder and the association DONNEXSTRADA highlights this movement, promoting a manifesto that encourages choosing partners who respect boundaries and foster well-being rather than just avoiding toxic behaviors. Mental health experts suggest that while recognizing danger signs is useful, focusing solely on them can create a culture of permanent suspicion.

Key indicators of a healthy relationship include open communication, respect for personal boundaries, and support for an individual's autonomy and hobbies.