Japanese parents face harsh criticism and language issues in child‑rearing

A 20‑year‑old Japanese housewife, caring for her infant alone, described how her husband returned from work and, upon hearing the baby’s nonstop crying, said, “Are you angry? Just smile more.” The comment left her feeling deeply hurt and isolated, highlighting the emotional strain that one‑parent childcare can place on spouses. Experts advise that parents in similar situations seek support from family, friends, or local services rather than bearing the burden alone.

Separately, a new book titled “Children Who Cannot Convey with Words” documents a growing trend among Japanese children who use extreme expressions such as “yabai” and “kimoi” to describe everyday situations. Teachers report that limited vocabulary contributes to bullying, social friction, and difficulty in emotional regulation. The book has been heavily reprinted before its release, reflecting widespread concern among parents, educators, and childcare providers about the impact of language degradation on child development.