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Married woman discovers husband's affair with close friend
A woman learned that her husband was having an affair with a close friend from her workplace. After piecing together clues, she confronted him, and he pleaded for a second chance, which she hesitated to grant. The betrayal coincided with her recent miscarriage, intensifying her emotional distress.
Clinical director Matt Bolden explained that "when one of these pillars gets broken down, it is challenging to get back on your feet, but when both are broken down at the same time, it can create intense emotional trauma." He added that people who experience infidelity often blame themselves, saying, "People who have experienced infidelity often turn the blame towards themselves. They often question why they could not see the signs, or what they did wrong."
Bolden recommended that those affected avoid making permanent decisions while emotionally overwhelmed and seek support from loved ones or professionals, emphasizing that counseling can help individuals decide whether to stay in or leave the marriage.