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Parenting guidance covers ethical communication and character building
Discussions regarding child-rearing emphasize both ethical considerations in communication and practical methods for character development.
Regarding honesty, Islamic teachings address the use of ‘white lies’ by parents, such as telling a child a television is tired to encourage sleep. While Islam generally prohibits lying, scholars like Imam Ibnu Hajar Al-Haitami note that sinfulness depends on intent and circumstances. The status of such statements is evaluated based on the underlying purpose and the specific situation.
In terms of practical upbringing, experts suggest that parents can foster resilience and a strong work ethic by not immediately fulfilling every child's desire. This teaches patience and the necessity of a process. Additionally, assigning age-appropriate responsibilities, such as tidying rooms or helping with household chores, is recommended to help children learn to complete tasks independently.