Slate advice column explores personal sexual and relationship dilemmas

The Slate advice column ‘How to Do It’ features archived letters addressing complex personal and sexual dilemmas.

One contributor, a trans man working in the sex industry, describes a transformative encounter with a client that has led to romantic feelings and a desire to pursue a personal relationship despite the age gap and professional boundaries.

Another contributor, a recently divorced man, discusses a loss of sexual desire and libido following his marriage. He expresses frustration with the ease of casual encounters and seeks advice on how to regain interest in sexual intimacy.