Sarwendah and Ruben Onsu's Divorce Fuels Ongoing Public Controversy Over Child Custody and Social Media Fallout

Ruben Onsu and Sarwendah remain locked in a public dispute following their divorce, centering on visitation rights and child support for their two daughters. Their lawyer, Minola Sebayang, said Ruben has struggled to meet the agreed two‑to‑three‑day weekly schedule and hinted at possible legal action to seek custody, noting that the current environment “could affect the children’s mental and emotional development.” Ruben posted a heartfelt Instagram message apologizing for any shortcomings as a father and expressing hope for future reunions with his children.

Sarwendah has faced intense social‑media scrutiny. She was previously removed from the idol group Cherrybelle, a decision she says was communicated through a termination letter. An apology video about a controversial Rp 200 million child‑support claim sparked backlash, leading her to amend her Instagram bio, removing brand ambassador listings. Former domestic workers accused her of being harsh behind the camera, while Sarwendah defended her independent business activities, stating, “Maybe people see me at home, but the business runs.” Her brother Jordi Onsu declined to intervene, saying legal counsel is already handling the matter. The saga has revived old digital footage of the couple’s past intimacy, adding nostalgia to the ongoing controversy.