Slovak Coaches Association urges parents to prioritize child wellbeing over grades

The Slovak Association of Coaches (SAKo) warned that the end of the school year can create intense emotional pressure for children. Professional coach and SAKo member Pavol Hudec said, “The end of June is an emotional overload for children; they feel joy about upcoming holidays but also tension about meeting their parents’ expectations.”

Hudec explained that many youngsters link their grades directly to self‑worth, risking lasting insecurity. He urged parents to shift the focus from marks to the child’s experiences, asking supportive questions such as “What happened? How can I help?” instead of “Why did you get a lower grade?” The association recommends asking children what they enjoyed most during the year, what they found hardest, and what they are proud of. “Children will forget the grades they received in third grade, but they will never forget how you handed them their report,” Hudec added.

SAKo’s guidance emphasizes building trust, acceptance and support as key factors that help children cope with academic stress and develop resilience.